Back in the day, most people’s concept of soulmate is someone that’s meant for them.
There’s this misconception that a soulmate is someone who is going to be there with them for the rest of their lives, someone they are going to have a family with, and someone they can live happily ever after with.
If truth be told, this is nothing but an absolute myth.
In reality, a soulmate is either someone who has been a part of your lifetime or spiritual journey (from the lifetimes you have lived) or someone who belongs to the same soul group.
That said, your siblings, friends, colleagues, grandparents, parents, significant other, or even your child can be your soulmate.
A soulmate is also someone who resonates with the same frequency.
Your soulmate will choose to be around you.
Even if it’s not throughout your life on earth but they’d spend a huge part of it with you.
Consciously or unconsciously, you and your soulmate will pick a path that’s parallel in various ways.
In other words, the way you both learn lessons can be through different means and situations but the lessons are more or less the same.
Soulmates: The Most Common Myths Busted
Who are your soulmates?
Contrary to popular belief, your significant other is not necessarily your soulmate.
A soulmate is not always a sexual connection or a romantic lover.
Your father, mother, child, siblings, friends, etc. can be your soulmate.
What are soulmates and soul groups?
Here’s something not many people know: you can have more than one soulmate!
When different souls from different groups come together, more than two souls can travel through a similar life plan to learn the same lessons.
Can you have more than one soulmate?
As mentioned earlier, the answer is a resounding yes!
You can have more than one soulmate.
You can have multiple soulmates.
Soulmates are not limited to romantic relationships alone.
Will your soulmate always make you happy?
At times, soulmates will choose to go through tough situations and pains to learn a specific lesson.
Make no mistake about it, just because someone is your soulmate, it does not mean that they won’t put you through pain or make life uncomfortable for you.
Your soulmate may also push you to achieve a higher level of frequency.
However, they often do it with compassion, kindness, and for your highest good.
Is your partner your soulmate?
You probably know by now that this is nothing more than a myth.
A soulmate can be different people in your life so don’t wait for the perfect partner and tag them as your soulmate.
Just because you have a romantic relationship with someone, it does not mean they are your soulmate.
The Lowdown on Twin Flames
Unlike a soulmate, a twin flame is someone who is a part of your soul at the time of birth.
Your twin flame is your mirror image.
They are also on their own journey.
They can be on earth at the same time as you are or living parallel on the other side.
The idea that you need to find and unite with your twin flame to become whole and complete is a complete myth.
You are already whole and complete.
When you start living life to the fullest, that is when your twin flame will find their way to you.
Your twin flame will not always stay forever.
They can come and be with you for just a brief period.
For your twin flame relationship to manifest, the following key factors should be in alignment:
- The timing should be right.
- You are already prepared to handle the karmic exchange.
- The other party is just as prepared to handle the karmic exchange.
When all the important factors mentioned above are in place, a twin flame connection comes into full play.
Until everything is in place, don’t go around chasing for your twin flame.
Allow them to come to you.
If you spend your life looking for them, you might not learn the lessons you are supposed to learn.
At times, it can be a lesson on patience, trust, and self-love.
When the time is right, your twin flame can come and by then you will be able to fully receive the lessons the other person has to offer and vice-versa.
Over to You
While often interchanged, soulmates and twin flames are two different things.
Soulmates are those that resonate at the same frequency as yours.
That said, soulmates are not limited to romantic partners alone.
A twin flame on the other hand is one who is a part of your soul.
Once you are able to differentiate one from the other, you will be able to figure out how you can contribute and make the most out of both relationships.